Cougar a guide for older women dating younger
An older man with a trophy wife can spark similar disgust.A more common (and intuitive) theory maintains that these couples aren't at the same desirability level, a mismatch we find aversive.
Society, however, hasn't exactly embraced real-life "cougars" with the same fervor as Tinseltown's producers.
Men can reproduce late in life, so an older man with a nubile woman makes more evolutionary sense than an older woman with a man in his prime.
Psychologist Nigel Barber, author of , says our gut reaction to the incongruency reflects how we quickly size up a person's mate value: by his or her looks.
"You couldn't tell by looking at our subjects that the wives were a decade older than their husbands," admits Sandra L.
Caron, who coauthored the University of Maine study.